Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC Life Coaching & Resources

I just listened to a free training by Tony Robbins talking about 3 decisions that will change your life.

3 Decisions that will change your life:

1. Decide what you are going to focus on
Most people let their focus go wherever it is drawn by what shows up in their day, rather than managing it themselves.
Successful people on the other hand decide where they are going to put their attention.

2. Decide what that focus means to you; focus equals feeling
Is it the end of something or the beginning of something new?
The meaning you give it will determine the action you take.
Whatever you focus on you are going to feel. Your focus is your reality!

3. Decide what you are going to do
What actions will you take to get the results that what you want?
This is where we sabotage or trip ourselves up because of old role models
and habits of feeling and thinking. We don’t follow through because we have
fear of failure in some area of our life.
So, you need to redirect your focus and create a new feeling for a new beginning to take an inspired action.

In other words, get out of the rut of your old thinking and behaviors to create something new. Train yourself to manage your mind and focus on leading yourself towards the results you desire with conscious decisions making.  Results are not random!

You are the director in your life! You are making decisions all the time, start directing them and see how your life changes.  It is not the outside world determining your results...did you get that?  The events, circumstances, drama, etc that show up in your life does not determine your reality.

It all comes down to what you choose to think or focus on, feel and the actions you make.

What keeps us from taking new actions, like doing the work of managing our thoughts? Fear of some kind.
I liked how Tony talked about the process of success:
Success comes from good judgments
Good judgments come from personal experience
Experience comes from bad judgments that we learn from

You have to give yourself room to create experiences and learn from them. You will only find that by allowing yourself to focus on new choices, possibilities and opportunities. With that focus decide what it means to you, why it matters and then choose to go for it in spite of the fear you might feel.

Be a leader in your own life!
Here is the recording I listened to by Tony Robbins Breaking Through

Start choosing, this very moment, in favor of the True You, honoring your worthiness, creativity and love!

Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC