Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC Life Coaching & Resources

Being Successful and Happy is a choice, it is not a matter of chance.

It is up to you to take action in your life and do the work necessary to create the life you want.
You become more conscious, in the now, aware of what you are thinking, feeling, doing, and your surroundings.
Becoming more conscious helps you see if you are on track or not to creating what you desire instead of what you don’t want which creats unhappiness and low self esteem.
It isn’t like you have to be constantly checking yourself all the time, just when you are not feeling what you would like to feel.

Apply the following 7 Habits of Successful & Happy People:

1. They know what they desire and why they desire it.
Successful and happy people set time aside to clarify what it is that they want to have, be and do in their life.
Doing this tells your energy where to flow.
It is like planting a seed.
You tell the energy where to go by what you are thinking.
What you put your attention on grows.
Your thoughts are like magnets that are attracting and matching energy to you.
If your outcome and focus are clear about what you desire you will create what you want in your life.
Stating your desires and thinking thoughts about what you want creates a vibration in your body that is released out into the world and attacts those things to you.
You are always manifesting whether you know it or not.
You may just be manifesting what you don’t want because that is where you attention is most of the time.
They reevaluate their desires and design new ones all the time as they get results.

2. They visualize what they desire.
What you put your attention on expands and the mind doesn’t know the difference between reality and make believe.
Successful and happy people give desires power to manifest by connecting with them energeticly through visualization; creating them in the mind as though they were real.  Fake it till you make it!
Emotions are the charge.
Their physical body feels the visualization as if it is real to them creating the vibration that will attract it.
Example: Feeling their hands around the steering wheel and smelling the that new car smell with the emotion of excitement/joy/glee…as they drive around town showing their friends.
They think about what they are creating every day, multiple times.
They feel the energy of having manifested their desires without being attached to the outcome. 
They are not attached to how it will show up or how they will get it they just keep seeing it, feeling it, and taking actions that move them towards their desire.

3. They believe in themselves and their ability to manifest what they want.
Successful and happy people work on themselves, they are constantly learning and growing and have faith.
They are clear about their strengths, talents and what makes them unique and they build on those rather than focus on their weakness. 
They are willing to take risks and fail.  
They learn from their mistakes, know their strengths and limitations, hire people to do what they are not good at.
They understand the laws of attraction and know that they are manifesting all the time. They choose to manifest what they desire building on past experience and have strong faith.
They like themselves, appreciate their life and all that is around them and love to create.

4. They take responsibility for their actions.
Successful and happy people believe that they are the creators of the world they experience.
They believe they are constantly manifesting their world by what they are thinking and feeling about their world.
They can only respond to what they are creating and react on results by what comes back to them.
They are responsible for their perception, so how could anyone else be responsible for their actions.
They do what they love and love what they do.

5. They take actions
Successful and happy people are always taking action to move towards their desires.
It is from their actions that they can gather information and determine their next coarse of action.
A sailor sets in one direction to reach his desired port. Because of varying winds and currents he must always be resetting his course until he reaches his destination. He can not know for sure what the course is before hand because all the variables of the future are not available. It is in the NOW that the right course is determined with all the information at hand.
One of the most important actions successful and happy people take is to grow themselves.
They are constantly working on themselves…because the better they become the better their world becomes.

6. They build powerful partnerships
Successful and happy people know that you can not be successful on your own.
Building powerful relationships with others to support you on your life journey is a must.
These people can be a coaches, mentors, family members, a mastermind groups, peers, a company, and friends.
Positive relationships are important.
Positive Relationships add to your life, not take away!
Surround yourself with like minded positive people. 
Remember your energy is like a magnet and you are attracting what you are vibrating.
If your desire is happiness, get happy now.
Surround yourself with people who are where you want to be so you can experience what they think and feel about their world.
You have got to Change the thinking that got you to where you are NOW to get you to where you want to go.

You can create joint ventures or alliances with others who share a passion for what you both desire and can help each other get there quicker and easier than on your own.
These can be sponsors, investors, complementary business, silent partner who helps with funding…etc.
By partnering you create more possibilities than you ever imagined.

7. They focus on honoring thier values (who you are)
Successful and happy people focus what is important in their life, what gives their life meaning and relevance.
Values are an inner framework of how you make choices.
They are the what lights you up from within; your deepest motivatiors.
When you pay attention to your values, what makes you tick you are fueling yourself.
Feeling yourself full means your needs are being meet, which allows you more to give.
Examples of values are: Learning, Mastery, Joy, Achievement ,Beauty, Nature, Authenticity, Connecting, Romance, Freedom, Self Expression, Service….

If you don’t feel in a positive state of being check out what you are thinking and feeling about what you are doing, being or having at that time.
And then CHOOSE (Get clear about what you desire) what you want and take action to make it happen so that you create for yourself success and happiness.

And really get; No one else can do that for you!
You alone are responsible for your success and happiness.

If you would like a Values Clarification sheet  to determine you values please email me and I will send you one. coachmarilyn@Yahoo.com

Let me know how this works for you!

Infinite Blessings, Marilyn