Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC Life Coaching & Resources

In the Law of Attraction, what you put most of your attention on you create in your life! I want to point out to you why a lot of people get results they don’t want instead of the outcome they desire.  It is a subtle difference that can change your life today!

There is a very powerful difference between the results you get focusing on what you are missing in some area of your life instead of focusing on what you desire.  Each put attention on something you want yet the results are very different.

Let me give you an example. I have been using hormone replacement for 7 months trying to come up with the right dosage of hormones, so I won’t have break through bleeding.  It has been very trying physically and emotionally for me.

I noticed that what I have been putting my attention on was the hormones not working for me the way I was wanting them to as I questioned the health benefits rather than putting my attention on my desired outcome being physically and mentally healthy.

The difference of focus seems slight, yet creates two powerfully different outcomes.

The first perspective is looking at all the ways I am being inconvenienced and feeding health fears; like sporadic bleeding, worrying about health issues of cancers associated with imbalanced hormones, trying to fix the problem, thinking what is wrong with me…

The second perspective focuses on the results I desire; a balanced highly functioning hormonal system that supports my healthy mind and body.

Now, we know that what you put your attention on expands and grows.  Your thoughts, beliefs and actions becomes your reality.

So, if I keep putting my attention on the first perspective, I am going to keep getting the inconvenience and dysfunction of my hormones feeding the worry about my health.  I am giving the cells in my body the message to be out of balance and unhealthy. I am looking for it, and we always make ourselves right. Over time, I am fulfilling what I put my attention on, my worst nightmare!

Very different result than what I really desire.

What I really desire is a strong, sexy, vital and highly functioning body and mind.  If I put my attention there that is what I am going to create.  It gives my bodies cells  and the Universe a very different message from the first perspective creating a completely different result.

So, If you are not getting the results you want in some area of your life, notice where you are putting your focus, on what is missing or what it is that you truly desire.

Are you focused on what you are longing for or for the results of being/having or doing what you long for in your life?

Let me know if this helps or how I can help you better see the differences so you can create what you truly want!

Let’s make your life work for you together!

Infinite Blessings & Abundance Always,
Marilyn